Xandria and/or Mistress Xandria. I haven't played her in years, but she is one of my favorite characters. I've never really done drag as a king unless you count my annual performances as The Clown Prince of Crime at the local sci-fi con (and the occasional bit, like Danny Zuko for a comedy piece) but I have played around with different names, many of them have been "Alexander" or "Jack" based
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
Have you ever been in a relationship where you thought the person was actually trying to hurt you... where you felt as though they actually resented being with you and being in a relationship with you?
Yes, and I removed myself from that situation. I think many of us make have to learn from our mistakes to be able to move forward.
Saturday, February 12, 2011
are you one of those "dating"/hookup websites? if so which one(s), and how do you like it? has it worked for you, that is to say have you actually met someone from the website(s)
I'm on OkCupid as "PrinceJulian" and I have some fun. I've connected with some people but haven't really had anything come to fruition.
I closed my "CollarMe" profile last week as years on that site never brought me anything but one decent conversation two years ago.
Overall, the only real luck I've had with online hook-ups was through an event website/social area for Dark Odyssey's Winter Fire in 2010. I'm still seeing that person every chance I get.
Why do you think people have to have boyfriend/ girlfriend relationships? Why can't it be we're fuck buddies or lovers or casual sex partners instead?
Many people don't- much of the world doesn't work in boyfriend/girlfriend terms, at least not the way I'm accustomed them being used.
Regardless, individuals work differently. I greatly enjoy both friendships with benefits and committed relationships.
Most importantly, many people simply don't find their needs met by casual encounters exclusively.
Additionally, there are myriad stigmas based on that sort of dynamic, some people just don't know there are other healthy options.
why do you suppose sex feels so good?
We're designed for sex feel good physiologically and psychologically.
Tuesday, January 25, 2011
formspring.me
Step right up... http://formspring.me/BDSMdandy Ask me anything, and get your answers publicly! Anonymous or sign up yourself. Ask away!
Thursday, December 30, 2010
Last question of the evening: Which Fetlifers have appeared in one or more of your sexual fantasies and do they know?
Most of my playmates and play partners are on FetLife, so the list would be pretty long! I guess we'd also have to define sexual. Some people include kink & S/M fantasies as being exclusively sexual, some don't. I fairly sure that at least 90% of the people who make my toes curl know. Many of them use that information against me. It's a beautiful thing.
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